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http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A20365-2003Dec21.html

Experience Keeps on Giving

A timely holiday tidbit: A new psychology study has found that the most valued, cherished and remembered gifts are not material things such as clothes and jewelry, but experiences such as concerts and travel.


"Individuals will live happier lives if they invest in experiences more than material possessions," said the report published in the December Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.


People were more likely to report that purchases of experiences made them happier than material purchases, and were more likely to have happy memories about experiences that cost as much as material goods, said researchers at the University of Colorado at Boulder and Cornell University, who conducted experiments among college students as well as a national survey.


The results held true for the young and old, men and women, Republicans and Democrats. The value of experiences seemed to increase sharply with income; the more discretionary money people had, the more likely they were to derive happiness from experiences rather than possessions.


Researchers Leaf Van Boven and Thomas Gilovich hypothesized that the difference may be that experiences are usually more central to peoples' identities and more likely to involve social relationships, which are themselves associated with happiness.


"Our findings do not imply that people should forgo basic needs such as adequate clothing, housing or nourishment in pursuit of life experiences," the researchers concluded. But "individuals will live happier lives if they invest in experiences more than material possessions."


-- Shankar Vedantam

Date: 2003-12-22 09:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] saintswife.livejournal.com
Just from personal experience, I would have to agree with this. I remember far better the trips and vacations then I do whatever toy was given to me at about the same age or time frame.

Date: 2003-12-22 09:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] futuregirl.livejournal.com
HAH! Absolution!

Seriously, this has ALWAYS been my gift-giving theory. I strive to give gifts that create memories, not gifts that sit on a shelf.

I never give a gift that's on a list - I always pick something unique and memorable that offers a real experience instead of just a tangible item. This is so cool! I've had the right idea all along!

Date: 2003-12-22 10:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pentomino.livejournal.com
That's quite a coincidence, since I consider money I've spent on vacations better-spent than that I've spent on stuff that clutters my apartment.

Of course, when purchasing a trip, you have to know that the time you've picked doesn't conflict with their schedule, right?

Date: 2003-12-22 11:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] futuregirl.livejournal.com
Or you purchase something that the person can schedule for themselves - an example from presents I've bought this year is a spa day or a massage. :)