Your Money or Your Life
2003-05-22 12:13 amPrompted by
nostradomnatrix's recent post, I've created the
ymoyl ("Your Money or Your Life") community for those who're interested in achieving financial independence and/or retiring early. Here's the community bio:
Do you want to be free to choose how you spend your time? Are you sick of working for pointy-headed bosses? Do you have a passion that you would be pursuing, if you only had the money?
Then this community may be for you. It is intended for people who want to achieve financial independence and/or retire early ("FIRE"). The community title comes from the book "Your Money or Your Life" by Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin, which explains how you can become financially independent by becoming more careful with how you spend you money and your time. If you haven't thought about achieving financial independence before, it's a good place to start. Another good place is the Retire Early Home Page
Feel free to post your daily money logs, frugality tips, links to articles related to early retirement, questions, etc.
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Date: 2003-05-21 10:33 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-05-23 12:55 am (UTC)Re:
Date: 2003-05-23 01:07 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-05-21 11:33 pm (UTC)I bought that book about a year ago, and had trouble getting through it, as I realized the authors were proceeding from very different premises than I was. The underlying environmentalism/anti-consumerism of the book really bothered me. The idea that both the world and myself would be better off if only I would quit buying so many things kind of seemed like rubbish to me. Since I have such a long list of things I'd like to get, I really prefer not to do many of the things they suggested.
This book, like many self-help books, kind of had the opposite effect on me from what I was hoping for. I was hoping it would provide me with ways to truly become financially independent, but instead it made financial independence seem even harder to achieve, given the kind of lifestyle I prefer.
I like the "idea" of being financially independent, especially in regards to being "employed" - things like setting one's own hours, style of dress, etc.., but I have also found that being self-employed can be quite expensive due to the overhead. So I determined that I might actually be better off to be an employee somewhere, for the time being at least. The trick to doing this while avoiding being a wage slave is to think of my employers not so much as employers, but more so like people I pay with my services who will in turn find money for me. I try not to think of them as my "boss" even if they set my hours and tell me what to do. Of course, it probably would be better to be truly financially independent, but I'm not sure I'm willing to accept what I perceive to be the necessary trade-offs at this point in time.
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Date: 2003-05-23 01:03 am (UTC)If a particular good is worth the amount of your life it costs, and you can afford it, by all means, buy it. The key is to be aware of the trade offs you're making in terms of freedom and material goods.
In my case, my biggest ongoing expenses are books. I drive a cheap car, live in an inexpensive apartment, don't eat at expensive restaurants, dress in inexpensive clothes. And I strongly dislike doing things just to keep my job, so I favor the tradeoff of time for material goods.
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Date: 2003-05-23 02:01 am (UTC)Ever since reading that article, I have valued just about everything I buy in terms of how much I must work in order to obtain it (and of course, how much extra work I must put in just to pay the taxes on the income I receive from my work!).